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The unanalysed therapist

Being in personal therapy is an important pillar of being a good psychotherapist. Psychotherapists registered with the UKCP and BPC, or attached to credible training institutes, are required to be in personal therapy with a senior professional for the duration of their training. Face to face, once weekly, at a minimum, for at least four…

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Why stopping therapy is not the same as ending psychotherapy

In psychotherapy there is a lot of focus on patients coming to therapy – the start. Prospective patients will often mull over starting psychotherapy for a long time and it is not infrequent that they have “false starts” where they perhaps research a therapist, only to abandon the process in favour of some less confronting…

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In therapy the past repeats until it can be let go of

A foundational principle of depth therapy is that until mourned, the past is never truly past. It lives on in the present in our relationships shaping how we see others, how we see ourselves and in how others see us. In the consulting room, this process plays out much the same way as it does…

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All depth psychotherapy is trauma therapy – and the rest is marketing

Spend ten minutes on social media and you’d think trauma therapy is a rare, specialist service that only a select few therapists can offer. The implication is clear: most therapy isn’t “trauma-informed,” so you need to shop for the right label. This is marketing, not clinical reality. If you are in depth psychotherapy, psychoanalytic, psychodynamic,…

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Why there is no such thing as a patient

Winnicott’s radical insight: There is no such thing as a baby Winnicott’s claim that “there is no such thing as a baby” is one of those deceptively simple psychoanalytic truths that resists being reduced to metaphor. He wasn’t being poetic. He meant it literally: there is no baby in isolation. There is always a baby…